January 20, 2007

Our Timeline (In Progress)

July 2006
  • Decided to start the adoption process
  • Found a social worker and received initial home study package in the mail
  • Attended "How To Adopt" seminar and it opened our eyes to international adoption
August 2006
  • Decided to adopt from China
  • Worked on completing initial application which included: individual statements and history, getting forms for police check and fingerprinting, answering questionnaires about considerations in adoption, and signed medical consent forms
  • August 18 th - Fingerprint form sent to RCMP and Criminal Record Check handed-in.
  • August 25 th – Received adoption package from Children’s Bridge and started gathering our information for the “paper chase”
September 2006
  • September 14th - Received a passing grade on the Fingerprint, Interpol, and Criminal Record Check
  • September 18th - Shipped package to social worker
  • September 24th - Social worker called, first meeting set for Oct 5th
October 2006
  • October 5th - We had our first home study interview
  • October 10th - Decided on a girl's name - Kylee
  • October 21st - 2nd home study visit
November 2006
  • November 3rd - Paul's individual visit with social worker
  • November 11th - Attended the Adoption Council of Ontario Resource Exchange
  • November 18th - Attended an Adoption Panel put on by Children's Bridge
  • November 23rd - Lisa's individual visit with the social worker
December 2006
  • December 21st - Final home study visit
January 2007
  • January 7th - Received our home study by email for editing
  • January 8th - Found out China would be a minimum 2 year wait for a referral once our dossier arrived in China. We were devastated. However, we were told about Vietnam and we got thinking about switching to Vietnam.
  • January 10th - Talked with our social worker to get her thoughts and contacted the Vietnam contact at Children's Bridge
  • January 11th - Decided to adopt from Vietnam. Got all the forms and packages emailed to us and filled them out.
  • January 17th - Meet with social worker to receive our completed home study.
  • January 18th - Sent our dossier to Children's Bridge
  • January 19th - Our dossier arrived at Children's Bridge and home study was sent off to the Ministry for approval (expecting a 8-12 week wait) and translation of our dossier began.
February 2007
  • February 15th - Home study was approved from the Ministry
  • February 26th - Dossier sent to Vietnam
March 2007
  • March 1st - First TwinRx shot
  • March 24th & 25th - Adopt Talk seminar
  • March 27th - Children's Bridge tells us to start immigration paperwork immediately
  • March 30th - Children's Bridge sends out it's first identified child referral this week
April 2007
  • April 3rd - Second TwinRx Shot
  • April 13th - Mailed completed Immigration Paperwork
May 2007
  • May 1st - Received immigration kit

January 19, 2007

Life Can Throw You So Many Surprises ...

Surprise #1 - getting pregnant wasn't as easy as we thought!
Surprise #2 - IVF was the route we would have to peruse if we wanted a biological child!
Surprise #3 - IVF wasn't all fun and games!
Surprise #4 - We chose adoption as the way we wanted to build our family!
Surprise #5 - We were going to adopt a baby from China!
Surprise # 6 - China was a 2+ year wait for a baby!
Surprise #7 - Vietnam is the route we are pursuing to add a baby to our family!

We started our adoption process in August 2006. We went to the seminars and workshops. Found ourselves a social worker to do our home study. Gathered the references, medicals, financial statements, police checks, fingerprint checks, and other necessary paperwork. We met with our social worker over 2 months and finished the home study in December 2006. Called Children's Bridge (our agency) to find out how much money we needed to send them to get our file to China when we were told the wait times for China had significantly increased.

They told us about Vietnam and after a couple of days, we decided that was the route we wanted to go. So, within a week, our home study was changed, new forms were filled out for Vietnam, and off our dossier went to Children's Bridge. It arrived there today and they have begun the translation process while we await approval from the Ministry.

Children's Bridge has told us to expect a 9 to 18 month wait time for a referral .... let's see how that pans out!